To exist or coexist

This system we have right now does not compare to what we really need as human beings.
We go to school to learn about history in the strategy of war for some reason, we learn about beliefsystems, but only those that are “most common and are carefully chosen” and we learn how to write and to calculate equations, and also we learn some sports, then we need to choose a way from that to follow a pretty precise direction in some of these subgenres in life (even if they tell you it's not like that, it still is for many), not for our own good but for the societies good, and as a good human being you follow that path to do the work required for living here on earth. But, none of us chose to be born here in this at least not me, so why are we being chased down the road of being in a specific way?
To fit in?? To handle lifes challenges? This is where it gets complicated.
 
Even though I think it’s a good thing to learn geography, languages, to write and doing math and sports. But this whole thing with beliefsystems and war (an important topic from my time in school), how is this going to help us to handle lifes challenges in todays life? Because when we’re done with it, no job application requires you to know about war more than it requires you to be a problemsolver, being able to see different views with unbiased eyes and ears and see everyone as a potential winner at life, because this will lead us to wanting to be openminded and learn as much as we can from eachother as equals.
 
The thing with beliefsystems is something that is stiff and precise in it’s direction, by reducing the word system (a complex and organized kind of whole) and we have only belief left, sounds more openminded, because belief is what it is and it is not concrete because it contains a lot of abstracts feelings (people does not always agree with eacothers view therefore it's abstract). Being openminded whithout judging either your enemies or your self will usually be the most useful way to handle life.
 
 
But what if...?
 
 
What if you didn’t make it thorough? What if you were too much or too little to handle school or worklife? I mean, it’s good when you get to this “path” of having an income and friends with healthy habits, but for everyone out there who have gone through the doors from contentment turning into being incomplete and worthless, all of your good grades doesn’t help anymore. Because now you are one of the ones left out, and usually when someone is left out they usually stay there because nobody want to let them in for some reason.
 
This is where life is really challenging, to get you back on you own feet...
When you ask for help you must prove yourself being worthy of the help either from society or a friend and you may have to do things you never learned in school, like being headstrong and not loose track of your dreams while things are going well for your loved ones but not for you, like standing technically naked so that others will see that you don’t intend to harm anyone, to tell someone about your situation and taking the risk of loosing your loved ones (because not all of them can handle your situation as it might be seen as somekind of disease and they might get affected too even if they know it's not like that) and sometimes in such detail that you feel almost embarressed to see them in their eyes while doing so.
 
While lying there on your back and completely naked you need to improve your way of socializing and way of speech as much as you need to improve your skills and knowlegde while also trying to remain calm and focused because not calm people are not welcome always. But what happens if something happens to you so that you need to bring the word from the doctor too or the phsycologist to get involved and now you are also thinking what’s the hell wrong with you.. for real? This can be much deeper explained but I choose to go no further than this, I think you get the picture.
 
Above all. You have to learn to see right through bullshit, because sometimes you are being promissed things that you really look forward to get or become, and then it just so happens that this promisse is made of an asshole you really looked up to earlier, So somwere we need to learn this in school as well, how to handle setbacks? When things does NOT follow our plan.
Because I personally think that many handle setbacks like idiots, not because they are but because they really don’t know how to do it. Because they never got the chance to learn. 
 
 
Also It’s easy to give every human a definition of shape especially when these people are in a much bigger group of people but by doing so will reduce this persons sence of identity wich might lead to even more people being angry and confused and not trusting anyone, they might scare more people down their road, and for some reason identity is halfhearted taboo today but having an identity is extremely important because without it, no value will be put in life.
 
As for this, being one in a large group of people require more to feel important to coexist compared to one in a small group where you don’t need to fight for your coexistence in the same way.
Everybody are stressed out and still dare to believe that it is us humans that are doing wrong by being humans. Wtf!?
 
I'm sorry but coffee and smartdrugs will not save the world.

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