The Soulflame

The soulmate relationship is one the absolute hardest things to let happen, because mostly people tend to get too afraid of letting go of the safe ground they’ve created and start flying. Which is mostly what your soulmate want you to do because they see the fears that’s holding you back, and as you both are internally and intensely connected the reactions are oftentimes very strong. As long as you longing for such a connection without the intention of going through personal pain which in this case means growth, and have faith in that they only wish you well, they only want you to feel the very best of your life, then both of you stand behind the shadows as you’re confusingly staring out into emptyness. Then if you try to stay together in that state, you will only hurt eachother. But as soon as both of you start to gain trust towards eachother and really understand the bigger picture, the essence of your growing movements, things will turn for your best as one, together as a team. And you will build eachothers wings so to say.
 
 
 
See it as if your soulmate is a doctor to find were you’re flaws are hidden, both things you know about yourself, but also the things you never given a thought about what stands in your way from being happy. And it’s like this doctor with their bare hands take on to these knots and kind of rip them straight out from your soul, to give these a chance to grow back together with healthy intentions. Yes it hurts like HELL. It’s not like a dance on roses with green fields with a golden pot filled with money or something like that. Because at that moment they basicly undress you the point where you can no longer hide anything, and it's scary.
 
 
In this stage you have no choice other than to trust your soulmate, and this, is were things will fall into place mostly. I mean sure, you can hide and run away from this connection, but once you have it.
 
 
First thing, the connection is so intense and passionate that you will feel as if something inside of you dies if you let this person go.
 
Second, while you both have this connection you know that you need to work on your own self, if you run, you’ll only stretch the timeline for you happines and growth.
And third, you can never hide your feelings, they will always be present and you’ll always be connected in one way or another.
 
 
In other words, it’s kinda "stupid" to let such a soul just go, if not for other reasons, you simply cannot handle the intensity for example. Then you still need to be aware of this connection in whatever you do or whoever you are together with.
 
To be completely honest is a hard thing to do, but it’s worth it in the end. And to be completely honest, I’m standing right at the edge of the cliff I’ve been standing on for so long, and I’m at this moment about to jump off. Simply because I have no other chioce. If my soulmate is important for me, then I simply have no chioce. And I believe he feel that way as well, and soon as we let go of the grounds we'll start flying. 
 
 
You know it’s not always about learning to fly that could be a real fucker for you, sometimes some people seems to have everything figured out, but they may not understand about other peoples struggles, or having faith to others, which in it’s on sense is a lesson towards growth as much as many more examples of blockings.
 
 
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I’ve recently discovered what the twinflame yourney is about partly.

You see, when you’re in this and you just met you twinflame, and as you fall in love with them, the only thing that activates, is actually your desire to have a happy life with them.
Your love for them is turning endless and passionate.

As for what everyone says about purging and being in seperation is not as what othes might think about this. it’s not about cleacning your soul to 100% at all. It’s more about the will and desire to live with this person for the rest of both of your lives equally, and deep down you might have fears that keep you away from your desired lovelife, and this is where you might get separated because you can not grow individually as much as a couple while holding hands, because you might forget your self while being together, and when that happens, that’s when you need to be away from eacother. It has nothing to do with purging och clearing in those ways the many promote online.

Many promisses that there are “hacks” to bring this connection to life, but the only thing they do is nothing more than giving empty promisses, because everything is between you and your flame. But inviting someone else into the connection will only drift you away from eachother the more space either of you give these people or advises.

But the only way to “hack” is hacking “through” the twinflame concept in it self.

What happens when you are giving in to people telling you what a twinflame is or that they are not all meant to be together is just feeding theese doubts even further, which might be the biggest challenge of them all, to see trhough these doubts.

Only you and your twin knows in your heart what’s going on between you two and this is only accievable when looking deep wthinn your heart, and you’ll most probably see everything you need.

The biggest mistake to ever make, is to see the twinflame yourney as something mysterious and painful. The pain is only as present as you need it to in order to take it seriously. The connection is real, but sometimes it feels like you don’t deserve it, where this is another of the big challanges, to come to insights about that we really to deserve it.

Well yes, twinflames are the mirror of us more or less, but not like we might interpret it most of the time.

The only thing you need to know about your connection with your twinflame is to know your self better. There is no need to “clean you soul”, just because this connection is new for us, doesn’t mean that its as mysterious. You only need to clean your self or wheter you need to “fix” enough to be with your twin. Because otherwise if everyone on this planet saw themselfes as divines and special and need to clean them selves 100% then this means that there is no end to the “healing work” which means that you will never be 100% clean so you will NEVER be with your twinflame. That just does not sound logic at all.

Another thing about twinflames is that your connection is perfectly logical and it is possible to understand it. But if you sway away into lala land and constantly convince yourself that this is the right way to go. Then you will always see your connection as something mysterious and not achieveable. If you REALLY want to be with your twin then focus on the equality, and not that they are like some kind of god, because you can not prove that god exists, so why put sach a laabel onto your twin?

I mean it’s cool and all having a telepathic connection and feeling constantly warm inside and guided by the light, but things like this will wear off eventually, so if this magic will be lost with your twin, then will you really stay with them still? And this moment of being “the chosen one” might one day as well disapear, so no need to get dragged into this just because it ‘s new and mysterious and almost not reachable right?

We all get high sometimes getting all codependent and smootchy but we will also live in reality, can you handle the reality when the high is gone?

Just because someone makes you high doesn’t mean that you are meant for eachother. Dare to see through even in the highest as the lowest moments with your chosen one, can you still see the love? Do your loved one see it too? If so, then you might just as well be made for eacchother.

I believe that twinflames and the concepts are merely just a way to confuse people about what it REALLY is.

And the biggest challenge is to stop listening to someone not knowing you saying that everything will be allright and they really love you and all you need to do is follow “their steps” and they promisse you the world...

And start to listening to your own heart, and let it guide you to your biggest whises.

No one ca promisse you anything expcept you to yourself. But no promisses is needed when you follow your heart right?

When in separation. this can sometimes be the issue:

Chasing Enlightenment and/or Ascension can be a trap and a path for choosing physical separation in favor of the illusion of spiritual unity.

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